Not a competition

 This.

Having a disability is not a competition as to who has more struggles than another.

Every individual who has a disability, regardless of what their disability is, has their own strengths and their own struggles that are unique to them.

I've actually been told in the past that an individual with a physical disability is more disabled than someone with a neurological disability, so therefore they have more struggles.

I had to walk away.

A neurological disability is hidden, and often we have to constantly prove that we do have a disability.

Please stop making everything a competition and just be you.